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Interventions for Children and Youth With Sexual Behavior Challenges

In this lesson, you will learn how risk factors can lead to sexual behavior challenges. You will also learn about potential intervention options for students who experience sexual behavior challenges. Finally, you will review best practices for educators to support students who receive counseling for sexual behavior challenges.

Objectives
  • Understand how risk factors impact sexual development and behavior.
  • Understand developmentally appropriate intervention options, including counseling.
  • Familiarize yourself with ways you may be asked to incorporate recommendations for students receiving intervention for sexual behavior challenges.

 

Learn

Know

Consider your thoughts so far regarding sexual behavior challenges. Are you wondering what could have happened to a student to make them act out sexually in a problematic way? Or what futures look like for a student who is having sexual behavior challenges? How can you support them and their families? We explore these topics as we move through this lesson.

Variability of Causes for Sexual Behavior Challenges & Other Concerns

As you learned in Lesson Four, sexual behavior challenges can affect students for many different reasons. These behaviors can be a result of sexual abuse; however, this may not always be the case. If you suspect sexual abuse, or a student reports that they have been sexually abused, or if a student has been in contact with a known sexual abuser, it is important to make a mandatory report.

As educators, it is important to know the signs of sexual abuse in students, but it is also important to be aware of other potential risk factors for sexual behavior challenges. Students who have not been sexually abused can also present with sexual behavior challenges. Consider a student with developmental delays who is struggling to learn personal space and may inappropriately touch themselves or others. Or maybe a student repeats the sexually explicit material seen on TV after an older sibling left the TV on. Students may also display sexual behavior challenges such as self-soothing through masturbation in response to traumatic events. These are all examples of paths to sexual behavior challenges that do not involve sexual abuse.

According to the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (2009), the following are risk factors for sexual behavior challenges:

  • Exposure to traumatic experiences, such as abuse, natural disasters, or accidents
  • Exposure to violence in the home
  • Excessive exposure to adult sexual activity or nudity in the home (including media exposure through television or the internet)
  • Inadequate rules about modesty or privacy in the home
  • Inadequate supervision in the home, often as a result of parental factors such as depression, substance abuse, or frequent absences due to work

Dr. Shelly Martin, Lt. Col., USAF, MC, Child Abuse Pediatrician, also reports that it is important to consider these additional, situational factors that can contribute to sexual behavior challenges:

  • Playmates in the neighborhood
  • Birth of a sibling
  • Co-bathing
  • Less privacy when dressing, going to the bathroom, or bathing
  • Viewing another child or adult in the bathroom
  • Seeing their mother breastfeeding
  • Comorbid diagnoses such as conduct disorder, attention deficit hyperactive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, or oppositional defiant disorder (children often have more than one diagnosis)
  • Developmental level of child or youth

Educators working with students experiencing sexual behavior challenges should be knowledgeable about the following social, emotional, and behavioral symptoms:

  • Impulsiveness and a tendency to act before they think
  • Difficulties following rules and listening to authority figures at home, school, and in the community
  • Problems making friends their own age and a tendency to play with much younger students
  • A limited ability to self soothe (calm themselves down), so they may touch their own genitals as a way to release stress and calm down

If a student experiences these challenges or needs, communicate your concerns with your school leadership. They will help decide next steps to take, including contactingPUBLIC a specialist and communicating with the family about resources and supports. Communicating early and working as a team provides the family with options for support and can prevent a student with risk factors from developing sexual behavior challenges.

Potential Intervention Options

As educators, it is beyond our scope of practice to provide mental health services for students who present with sexual behavior challenges. However, you should be informed on intervention options for sexual behavior challenges available to students and their families. It is important to be aware that different programs and schools refer to these resources by various names. For example, mental health professionals can include counselors, psychologists, psychiatrists, or social workers. These professionals may provide counseling, therapy, intervention, or treatment. Certain settings may also include specialists, such as board-certified behavior analysts, occupational therapists, and intervention specialists. In learning about the various types of providers, you should be able to identify who the point persons in your school are for questions related to sexual behavior challenges. If you do not know, seek out this information.

Families should receive intervention from providers who are knowledgeable about sexual development, childhood and adolescent development, and research-based interventions (NTCSN, 2009). Mental health professionals will consider differential diagnoses and will look holistically at the child or youth, taking into consideration their environment, parenting style, family, and social factors. Each assessment is unique and treatment decisions are made on a case-by-case basis aiming for the least restrictive treatment option (Martin, 2019). Two research-based practices for sexual behavior challenges are Trauma-Focused–Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF–CBT) and Problematic Sexual Behavior–Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (PSB–CBT).

TF–CBT is implemented by mental health professionals for children and adolescents recovering from trauma. TF–CBT also effectively addresses many other trauma impacts, including (Trauma- Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, 2019):

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Cognitive and behavioral problems
  • Improving the participating parent’s or caregiver’s personal distress about the child’s traumatic experience
  • Effective parenting skills
  • Supportive interactions with the child

PSB-CBT is also provided by a trained mental health professional. This model includes:

  • Rules about sexual behavior and boundaries
  • Abuse prevention skills and safety planning
  • Emotional regulation and coping skills
  • Impulse-control and problem-solving skills
  • Developmentally appropriate sexual education
  • Social skills and peer relationship
  • Acknowledgment of sexual behavior, apology, and making amends

Additional key clinical components include (NCTSN, 2016):

  • Parent behavior training to prevent and respond to problematic sexual behavior and other behavior problems
  • General child and adolescent development with emphasis on psychological and emotional changes
  • Dispelling misconceptions regarding problematic sexual behavior and implications for the child
  • Communicating with children and adolescents about sexual behavior and development
  • Supporting the use of coping and decision-making skills

During the child or adolescent’s initial assessment, the mental health provider may ask that you, as the educator, contribute to your student’s assessment. Often, you will be provided with a questionnaire or checklist to complete. In addition to other assessment materials, your information helps the mental health professional make a recommendation for outpatient or more intensive therapy, such as inpatient or residential care, depending on the severity of the behaviors, the presence of additional mental health concerns, or previous unsuccessful treatment.

As intervention progresses, the mental health provider will work with the child or adolescent and with the family, possibly in individual or group and family therapy formats, to create a developmentally appropriate intervention plan. Often, counseling will consist of, but is not limited to, identifying and establishing healthy boundaries, self-regulation skills, and parent management training. Here are some examples of what intervention for sexual behavior challenges may look like based on the recommendations of a mental health professional:

  • The student who mimicked sexually explicit acts when their older sibling left the TV on may be recommended to have weekly outpatient intervention that includes all the family members to help establish healthy boundaries and parent management.
  • The student with developmental delays presenting with inappropriate touching may benefit from outpatient counseling two to three times a week to help parents and the child or adolescent establish healthy boundaries and self-regulations skills and to address other areas of need.
  • The student who self-soothed through masturbation due to traumatic events may be served in a half-day outpatient setting to learn coping skills for their traumatic stress responses and also appropriate times of when and where to explore their sexuality. If, in that intensive outpatient setting, the mental health professional identifies that the child or adolescent’s home life is more of a risk factor, or trauma is more intense than originally diagnosed, they can be moved into an inpatient or residential care facility. Depending on the facility, the child or adolescent may have limited interaction with their families and increased daily structure with regular therapeutic interventions that can include individual and group counseling. While the child’s or adolescent’s intervention plan is confidential, it is crucial to be aware of what you as an educator can do to help the child or adolescent, especially if and when they reintegrate back into your classroom.

Incorporating Intervention Strategies

For students with sexual behavior challenges who continue to attend your school, in addition to receiving intervention, you may be asked to follow recommendations. Some of these recommendations may be things you already do as part of your classroom management to support active supervision. Mental health professionals may request that you incorporate strategies into your daily routines to reinforce what the student learned during intervention. According to Mitten, Sigel, and Silovsky (2017), discussing rules about sexual behavior is a strategy that can prevent sexual behavior challenges. It is also appropriate to communicate with families before such information is discussed with students so that families will not be caught off guard in case questions or comments occur at home after the information is presented. Presenting information in a calm manner helps students to be more open in discussing sensitive topics.

Elementary School Rules & Expectations

  • No touching other people’s private parts.
  • No other people touching your private parts.
  • No showing private parts to other people.
  • No looking at other people’s private parts.
  • No touching your own private parts when others are present.
  • Touching your own private parts when you are alone is OK.

Middle & High School Sexual Behavior Rules

  • It is not OK to look at other people’s private parts.
  • It is not OK to show other people your private parts.
  • It is not OK to touch other people’s private parts.
  • It is not OK to use sexual language.
  • It is not OK to make other people feel uncomfortable with your sexual behavior.
  • It is OK to touch your private parts as long as you are in private and it does not interfere with other activities.

Schools are charged to keep all students safe. To address this concern, you may be asked to provide additional supervision for students receiving intervention for sexual behavior challenges. This may look like creating a supervision or safety plan with the students’ families and school administrators to ensure the safety of all students. This is especially important if the child or adolescent exhibited sexual behavior challenges toward other students. Also know that when a sexual behavior challenge has occurred, your school leadership will consult a specialist. Depending on the specialist, there can be a lag in time between when a referral is made and when the specialist is able to consult or complete an evaluation of the student. In this instance your school’s leadership will put a temporary supervision plan in place until given further guidance.

Supervision plans can include:

  • Line-of-sight supervision
  • Supportive shadowing (one-on-one)
  • Line-of-sight supervision or supportive shadowing of the student upon arrival, during recess and lunch, and upon departure
  • Supervision of the student during other times of the day that are less structured or have reduced supervision
  • Designated play areas
  • Supervision of the student’s use of the washroom
  • Supervision for sports, including changing areas (e.g., for swimming)
  • Procedures for the student to check in with a designated adult throughout the day
  • A plan for responding to subsequent inappropriate sexual behavior, which may include a set of escalating consequences
  • Specific behavior management strategies including a plan for reinforcing appropriate behavior
  • A plan to involve the student in positive activities with peers
  • A communication plan that specifies how and with whom information will be shared
  • A designated case manager
  • A scheduled review and update of the plan
  • Clear communication of rules
  • implementation of coping or calming skills, including those for the educator similar to CAPPD model in Lesson One and the self-care strategies in the Focused Topics course, Trauma-Informed Care, Lesson Four

It is important that the safety or supervision plan is periodically reviewed as the student progresses in their intervention (Responding to Children’s Problem Sexual Behavior in Elementary Schools, 1999).

School Interventions

Schools can implement policies and preventive measures to address sexual behavior and be a supportive factor for students with sexual behavior challenges by:

  • Reviewing policies regarding communication about sex education, promoting abuse prevention, and working with families affected by sexual behavior challenges.
  • Offering sex education for families to incorporate the entire support system to engage in healthy communication about appropriate sexual development.
  • Looking to school counselors or collaborate with clinical counselors to implement classroom lessons on healthy boundaries, self-regulation skills, and safe touch. School and clinical counselors can also help meet individually with students or with families to assist with supervision plans and discuss counseling referrals.

See

Interventions to address sexual behavior challenges are individualized and based on the specific needs of each student. When working in multidisciplinary teams, both within the school setting and when collaborating with professionals outside your school, you will contribute what you know about students’ strengths, challenges, and development so teams have in-depth information to inform the assessment and intervention plans. Listen as experts speaks about the assessment process and research-based interventions for students with sexual behavior challenges.

Assessing Students with Sexual Behavior Challenges

A mental health professional speaks about the assessment process.

Interventions for Sexual Behavior Challenges

A mental health professional speaks about research-based interventions.

Do

As you think about your role as a professional working with students, reflect on what you can do to be a part of a supportive team. Reflect again on your personal biases of working with students experiencing sexual behavior challenges and how these biases have an impact on the support you provide. Consider these guidelines and standards of care for professionals working with children and adolescents who exhibit sexual behavior challenges provided by the National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth:

  • Recognize the importance of your work for promoting community and family safety.
  • Be aware of the potential for significant impact and life-altering consequences that your practices may have on youth and their families.
  • Inform children, youth, and their families that professionals are mandated reporters of child abuse.
  • Ensure that your student is fully informed, in developmentally and cognitively appropriate language.
  • With the consent of families, collaborate with outside specialists and agencies so student’s intervention feels like a team effort.
  • Follow relevant practice guidelines and ethical standards (e.g., Association for the Intervention of Sexual Abusers’ standards and guidelines, as well as those of your profession).

Explore

Revisit the expanded Case Study you read in Lesson Four below, and review the accompanying sample supervision plan. Supervision plans may be recommendations based on the evaluation of specialists or created by program leadership to bridge the gap between when an incident occurs and when a specialist can consult or make recommendations. Brainstorm how you would implement the plan with a colleague.  

Apply

Review the documents on Types of Touch and Guidelines for Documentation of Incidents of Sexual Behavior Challenges. Discuss this information with a colleague.

Glossary

Counseling:
A therapeutic intervention provided by trained mental health professionals to treat behavioral, mental, social, and emotional symptoms
inpatient therapy:
Intensive counseling that requires the patient to stay at the intervention center such as a hospital for 24/7 support
mental health professionals:
Individuals who have been trained and licensed to assess, diagnose, and treat issues of mental health, including counselors, clinicians, therapists, social workers, psychiatrists, nurse practitioners, and psychologists, each having different training and expertise
outpatient therapy:
Patients or clients live at home and attend counseling sessions in their community
residential care:
Safe living homes for people typically needing supportive housing for recovery; can be a step down in an intervention plan from inpatient therapy

Demonstrate

True or false? Every student who exhibits sexual behavior challenges has been abused.
Complete the sentence. When helping students with sexual behavior challenges, mental health professionals (such as counselors, psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers) use intervention methods that . . .
This year Georgina, a second-grade teacher, aims to address challenging sexual behavior in her classroom by sharing with her students rules for expected behavior around the subject of private parts and safe touch. What can you reasonably expect might happen in the classroom when Georgina implements her plan?
References & Resources

National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth. (n.d.). Guidelines and standards of care. Retrieved from http://www.ncsby.org/content/guidelines-and-standards-care

Martin, S. (2019). Sexualized behaviors in children and youth. Retrieved from militaryfamilieslearningnetwork.org/event/29419

Mitten, A., Sigel, B. A., Silovsky, J. F. (2017). Birds do it, bees do it…even the TF-CBTers do it: Addressing sexual behavior in trauma intervention. National Children’s Alliance. Retrieved from http://www.nationalchildrensalliance.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/08242017-TF-CBT-PSB-Webinar-Presentation.pdf

National Child Traumatic Stress Network. (2009). Understanding and coping with sexual behavior challenges in children. Los Angeles, CA, and Durham, NC: National Center for Child Traumatic Stress. Retrieved from https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources//understanding_coping_with_sexual_behavior_problems.pdf

National Child Traumatic Stress Network. (2016). PSB-CBT-S: Problematic sexual behavior – cognitive-behavioral therapy for school-age children. Retrieved from https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/interventions/psbcbt_fact_sheet.pdf

National Children’s Alliance. (n.d.) What we can do. http://www.nrcac.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/2017-PSB-Fact-Sheet-Overview-3.pdf

Ministry of Education. British Columbia. (1999). Responding to children’s problem sexual behaviour in elementary schools: A resource for educators. https://www.icmec.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/Responding-to-Improper-Touching-CA.pdf

National Therapist Certification Program. (2020). About trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy (TF-CBT). Retrieved from https://tfcbt.org/about-tfcbt/